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5 Ways to Celebrate and commiserate with loved ones who have had to Adjust their Event plans

6/10/2020

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By Samantha Bernstein

Late spring and early summer are times usually filled with tons of events. From graduations to weddings, birthdays to anniversaries, engagements to retirements, there are a lot of reasons to celebrate! And although parties as we know them are on a bit of a hiatus due to COVID, these milestones do not just cease to exist. So, the question remains: how can we continue to support our friends and family who have had to cancel, reschedule, or rethink how they hold their festivities? Here are 5 ways to let your loved ones know that your thoughts, commiserations, congratulations, and well wishes are with them.

1. Reach out!

Man in suit holding open greeting card
Photo by Asya Photography
Don’t hesitate to shoot them a text or email, pick up the phone, or even send them some snail mail. While always appreciated, these gestures are all the more important as the event hosts and guests of honor cope with the fact that you cannot be together in the way that they originally intended. This is an opportunity to be there for your friends in whatever ways they need; however, it is not the time to offer opinions or advice regarding their event decisions (unless you are specifically asked!!).

2. Send a gift.

Flower bouquet with handwritten note
Photo by Sarah Elizabeth Photography
Consider going a step further by sending a gift or having something delivered. It doesn’t have to be anything big or fancy; again, the purpose is just to let them know that they are in your thoughts. Think about the people, their tastes and preferences, and your relationship when considering what to send. Perhaps a nice bottle of wine for that vineyard-hopping couple who had to reschedule their wedding. Chocolates and other sweets for your niece on her birthday (check out The Sweet Trading Company for delicious and beautiful treats). A balloon assortment for your cousin who just graduated (I highly recommend Party Shoppe of the Main Line). Flowers for your parents on their wedding anniversary (shameless plug for the always incredible arrangements from Long Stems http://www.longstems.com/shop-by-occasion).
Rice krispie treat with blue and silver sprinkles and label that reads "HAPPY 30th BIRTHDAY"
Woman holding small gift box with blue and white balloons in the background
Rice Krispie Treats packaged in adorable gift boxes from Jody at The Sweet Trading Company​
Arch of blue and white balloons over door to house
Love these balloons from Party Shoppe of the Main Line

3. Plan a Zoom Surprise Party.

Picture of house and lawn with balloon canopy and signs reading
Photo by Rachael
Plan a surprise party via Zoom or Google Hangouts. Thanks to classic TV shows like Friends and Full House, surprise parties hold a very special place in my heart. And what better time to plan one than right now? It’s fairly easy to mobilize friends and family thanks to the advent of social media. Plan a call with the guest of honor for a specific time, but inform everyone else of an arrival time approximately 15 minutes earlier. Imagine your friend’s look of surprise when they log on and see 30 of their nearest and dearest from various parts of their life together on one screen!

4. Make a video (or collage or sign) for them.

Picture of colorful hand-written and drawn signs tacked on a wall
Photo by Rachael
Reach out to the honoree’s loved ones and ask that they record and email you short clips of them sending love and well wishes. Using editing software (such as iMovie), compile these clips into a single video.

5. Decorate their driveway.

Photo of a wood fence with a chalk drawing of a smiling sun
Stock Photo
Channel your inner child and leave a chalk message on their driveway or sidewalk. Consider using this opportunity to wish them a happy birthday or a congratulations. Feel free to include inside jokes, draw little illustrations (even just a smiley-face or flower), write them a poem, or anything else. Get creative and have fun with it! And it’s totally up to you whether you want to sign your work or leave it anonymous.

And here's an additional thought: all of these ideas can be adapted as ways to thank first responders and essential workers for all that they are doing right now!
1 Comment
Hailey Miller link
7/14/2021 05:54:07 pm

Thanks for pointing out that sending gifts to people can let them know they are in our thoughts. My husband and I want to let our friends know that we miss them, but we have to stay home to protect our two kids during this pandemic. We are hoping to find Demon Slayer figurines we can have delivered to our two friends' homes since they both love Giyu Tomioka.

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